Homework, Homework, and Homework

Over the years this writer has enjoyed providing addiction education, life skills and mentoring to kids and adults of all ages. The last few years I have found myself doing something that I never learned to do as a kid, homework. This last month of October 2013, I have been fortunate to work every day, Monday through Sunday, helping my clients, families, and other referrals that are sent my way. If I were to try and find the common thread this last month with all of my clients, some in school, others trying to go back to school, or clients who have kids that are in school what is the theme? Homework is the correct answer. Each week I will find myself helping kids, college kids, and adults with kids working on their homework. My brain back in the day did not pay attention to the algebra, chemistry, biology, world literature, english, and history. I am finding that my higher power, and God are providing me this challenge or make up for not paying attention in class when I was a kid! Parents, if there is one thing that I can share with you with this story it would be to get engaged in your child's academic career. Make it a fun experience when you are helping with the homework! You will find that your patience, and commitment to your kids studies will help you build a healthy interpersonal relationship with your son or daughter. Taking that extra time to listen and learn with your child will help each of you stay in the moment. I am finding that kids and parents who are struggling with addiction, can learn to communicate with each other while doing their homework. The communication building and listening skills seem to help diminish the disrespect and past negative behavior. Homework can be a gateway to a positive transformation between the kid and adult. Schedule a time when you can check in with your kid, and support their academic futures. Collaborate together, and learn new communication skills as you both learn about each other in challenging times. Stay in your health, stay in the moment.