Resentments

Resentments appear to change people. Resentments seem to distance people from who they can become. We all get jealous, sometimes act foolish. If this is all true, then how are we embracing each other when the negative energy appears to be the common link? Take some time to think about resentment and how it may decieve you. We need to harness our negative energy, and let it go. The more we keep it, the less we can do. Be happy for other's. Good fortune comes in all forms. However, if we are living in the resentment world, we are missing our own good fortune. It starts with self. You have to forgive your self. Then you need to stop with this negative resentments for self. Now you are ready to appreciate other's accomplishments. Don't waste negative energy and time stressing about unhealthy people in your life, or measuring your life to someone else. When someone does something that really get's under your skin, you got to let that negative thought go. Sure, you can be frustrated, hurt, and even mad, but you can work through it! It's not worth the energy to keep resenting something that you can't control. Self controls self's thoughts. Boundaries are a postive way for self to not get involved in unhealthy resentments. Sometimes the things we are resenting, are things that we are making bigger in our own heads. Try not to measure your self  or compare your self with others. Work on you. When we compare or make list's of things that we do not have, and seem to think others have our list qualites, we begin to resent and get our of our health. Stay in the moment. That moment is not about resentments, but letting go of thoughts that appear to get us out of our health. Resentment thoughts are just that, thoughts. Don't act upon them, and fuel their negative energy. Stay in your health, stay in the moment.